Jamaican in China! How to Meet Girls in Beijing
So, here's the scenario: You're a man. You're not Chinese.
You don't look Chinese, and you're planning a trip China! Great! Congratulations!
"So," you ask, "how are the women there?"
Good news:
First thing is, as a foreign (Jamaican) guy, Beijing is probably one of the friendliest places
I've ever experienced! If your experience is anything like mine, you'll enjoy being here.
Here's what you've got going for you. Here in China, there's widespread
curiosity about foreigners. People are advertising rooms for rent and "roommate
wanted" situations with a preference for foreigners. Most everyone wants to learn English,
and people are naturally friendly.
Bad news:
But, even so, there may be some challenges to maximizing your dating prospects.
First of al, you'll be a stranger in a strange land. It's a different culture. There are different gender roles.
You may or may not speak the language, and most people are probably going to assume that you don't.
But, there are also a few other challenges to meeting girls
This is an unofficial survey, but I've already heard it many times
from the girls here in Beijing that "I'm afraid to talk because my English is not good," or
"...many times we see a handsome foreigner, but we don't know what to say."
You see, I've also learned that a prevalent perception of foreigners that Chinese
have (among many) is that there are certain things that Chinese shouldn't talk about
with foreigners lest you offend them.
So think what a challenge it must be for the foreign-curious girl on the street who's
culturally shy, extremely self-conscious about how good her spoken English is,
doesn't know how to initiate a conversation, AND afraid she might offend you by saying the wrong thing?
So, what's a girl-seeking foreign man to do????
Wouldn't it be nice if you had some way of letting them know that you're NOT
an unfriendly, selfish foreigner (I told you there were many stereotypes)?
Wouldn't it be nice if you had some simple way to show that you're open to talk,
that you respect the language and culture?
Hmmm....You're probably thinking, "I wish I had a t-shirt that said, "Say Hello to me!" or
one that said "Ask me anything!" That would be sooo coool!"
Well, you can thank me later, but here it is!
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